Dad

My Father & I have never been close not one bit. Ever since I was a kid I've always known that Jay is his favorite & I am at peace with that. I used to hate him for years from grade school until high school because he seems so much harder on me than on my younger brother but not anymore.

Jay is more like my Dad. He is good in business & very extrovert. I on the other hand prefers to work in a job that I enjoy & quite the introvert.

According to about.com "basically, an extrovert is a person who is energized by being around other people. This is the opposite of an introvert who is energized by being alone". That sounds exactly like Jay & me.

My Father actually taught me a very valuable lesson because of the way he treated me while I was growing up which is to be independent & not ask for help from anyone. 

I will always be thankful for that even though I know that it was something that he didn't mean to pass on to me.

Now I can say that our relationship is far better compared to before. You know why? It's because I have already forgiven him for the things that he did in the past & accepted the fact that I could never please him like Jay can.